Wednesday, February 13, 2019

You...L...3...Genere

Its other way of calling Life Long Learners. But what are the qualities and skills that become mandatory to be L3G.
Aspiring to be a L3 one must develop the following skills.

Good communicator: L3 must me an excellent communicator.Remember communication is not natural for most of the human beings but the uniqueness of it is that it can be  enhanced with continuous practice and rehearsals. Take for example head of Microsoft Bill Gates or Facebook owner Mark or for that matter current czar Elon Musk. All these great personalities developed their communication skills over time. All such excellent communicator have shared some common points but their major thrust is those in conversation must be equally heard and understood.
Lets take some of the traits here.

Open-Minded
We generally assume a person who is a good communicator generally shows off but its is a misunderstanding that leads to conflicts. There should be confidence in expressing one's own-self. It shows how you would approach the thoughts and views of others. According to Dean Tjosvold,"incorporate the beliefs that others should be free to express their views and values to others."so to be open-minded you must be open to praises as well as criticisms. remember you can change the world by being open-minded.

Inquirer:
person who is always on the hunt for more information is an Inquirer. Albert Einstein was a great inquirer that lead him to become a famous scientist of all times. Benjamin Franklin was a genius at inquiring that lead to discovery of electricity with lightning. Nikola Tesla was an enquirer worked in telephony and at continental Edison , and electric company and after almost 200 years the same Tesla idea was made into an automotive company. So my dear ones be ready to be great inquirers.

An Active Listener:
For a better communication one should be an active listener. while one is speaking the others must listen carefully. without listening carefully the student will not be able to comprehend and without comprehending properly the explanation or the subject matter and presentation would become void. to be an active listener you must focus not only on the words spoken but also on the way they are spoken, the expressions and gesticulations. Then only you will be able to absorb the real thought and connect to the emotions of the speaker.You can call it verbal as well as nonverbal understanding. to be an active listener you must be able to mirror other's information and emotions but at the same time do not be shy to ask questions for clarifications. but do not forget to share because sharing your gathered information will tell you whether you are able to understand it fully or not. Examples could be any one around you who is an effective speaker ... you would find is an active listener too.

Positive Thinker:
Human brain is best at negative thinking that also needs less thinking to process. by positive thinking a person can change the life. but a greatest impediment to positive thinking is the development of habit towards it.The world around you cannot be changed but perception of it can be changed and reaction to it can be changed by self belief and self control. just go through first interviews of Mark Zuckerberg and you will find he was not able to control his emotions because he could not control his emotions. But his later interviews shows him to be more calm and in complete control.
Caring nature: this word although so simple but has very deep meaning.  It widely means, "You not for only You' remember caring characteristic in your personality make you a much stronger human being. you see some one suffering , may it be of any type of dimension and you turn a blind eye to it . After some time you start feeling bad about yourself but if you would have done a small gesture , a minor effort you would have felt better and more confident.this also shows how you think you should be treated by others if your won conditions change from comfortable  to worst. Its lucky to have a comfortable and active life but it does not mean to deny the right of someone looking to improve it.
                        Did you Find yourself in it??



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